Anyone who’s in business will tell you it’s not what you know but who you know. Here at City Life, we couldn’t agree more!

NETWORKING OR NOT WORKING...?

So, how do you get to meet likeminded business people? For a start, you could join a good networking organization and in this issue we feature two such organisations who are taking the networking world by storm.

But before you sign up and pay a visit to your first networking meeting, we thought we’d give you a few pointers on how to network successfully. Just follow these simple hints and you shouldn’t go far wrong.

1. Your badge – Should say what it does on the tin. Most networking event organizers give you a name badge. If none are available, make sure you’ve got your own handy. A badge has the potential to be a silent conversationstarter, which is especially helpful for those who are nervous talking to strangers. If all you write is your name, you aren’t giving other attendees anything to work with. It’s a small thing but has a big impact.

Here’s what to do instead: Think a moment before you decide what to write. Ask yourself, is my company name familiar? Does it say what my company does? If not, your tagline may a good thing to include on your badge as well. Also:
■ Make sure your name is legible and written with a thick marker, if possible, so it’s visible from afar and people don’t need to squint or lean in close to read it. For the same reason, don’t use your business card as a nametag.
■ In bold, easy to read letters, include your name, your professional designation, your company name and your title.
■ Put your web address on your badge too. Not only will it be a conversation starter, but it will plant a little seed for someone to visit your website.
■ You can even use it to ask a question about a resource you need (“Know any good publishers?”) Make it funny or unusual. Others will notice and see it as an invitation into conversation.

2. Introduce yourself with pizzaz. I used to say, “I’m a publisher.” I now realise this isn’t the best way to start a conversation. I could be a publisher of a magazine about sewers (no offence to sewer magazines out there). Now I say, “I publish magazines called Vale Life and City Life, the premier lifestyle magazines for the Vale of Glamorgan and Cardiff”. This usually gets a better response.

3. Try not to let your nerves show. At most networking events, you’ll get a chance to stand up and say a little bit about what you do. If you tend to get nervous at public speaking, (as I sometimes do), my advice is to practice what you’re going to say well in advance so that you cover all bases.

Another very useful trick is to imagine the audience using the loo or eating a large cream cake. Not very glamorous I know, but it takes the edge off believe me!

4. Don’t use jargon and don’t get too technical. If I want to know more, then I would have to ask a few more questions. If you’re a printer, don’t talk about pantone colours, if you’re a publisher, don’t talk about column width sizes. If you do, eyes will start to glaze over. Instead, keep it interesting and light. Concentrate on the benefits to the potential customer. Imagine yourself in their shoes and think about what would be most useful to them.

5. Always follow up. Very few people actually do! After an event, follow things up with a quick email message saying, “Great to meet you.” Are we just too busy to follow up? Or maybe we just don’t know what to say? It takes a few minutes to compose a short email message and if you don’t remember exactly what you discussed, you may assume the other person doesn’t remember either.

But, no matter what you tell yourself, when you’re sitting in front of a blank screen with a stack of cold business cards, push yourself to make the effort to write a short note. That way, your email address and message is in their inbox, just in case.

Here’s another useful technique I’ve found to be quite effective to prevent blank screen/blank mind. Set the foundation for a follow up while you’re talking. Note anything unusual about them or the work they do, any details or specifics that you might forget.

Note also, right then and there, any ideas you have about follow up: the link you promised to send or the resource you want to pass along. That way, you will never be able to use the ‘blank mind’ as an excuse.

One of the objectives of networking is to plant seeds for future relationships. But if all you can think of is, “What can this person do for me right now?” you’ll miss out on a lot of great opportunities down the road. Remember to give a little to get a little back.

If you miss the chance to expand your network today just because you don’t take the time or don’t know what to say, you may never know what you’re missing. The executive you follow up with today may just be the person hiring tomorrow or the one who could put in a good word at a company you’re talking to.

Most importantly relax, be yourself and enjoy the networking process.

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PROSPER BUSINESS REFERRAL NETWORK

Prosper Business Referral Network is an exclusive business network established in the Vale offering its members a whole range of business networking and business development opportunities.

The network meets on a monthly basis in exclusive hotels across the UK. Membership is by invitation only, with an emphasis on quality, not quantity.

The unique selling point of Prosper is that at the centre of each network is a business coach with a role to manage the network and its complementary services, thereby allowing its members to concentrate on doing business with one another.

The business coach works with members to increase business opportunities by arranging introductions, supporting their marketing activities and to signpost them for further business support, such as grants, venture capital funding etc.

The monthly meetings start with networking over a glass of something, after which the networking group sit down to enjoy a delicious dinner together when members really have time to get to know one another and explore opportunities of working together. Then, over coffee they enjoy a thirty minute Business Master Class, followed by further networking opportunities.

In between monthly meetings members can access a whole host of additional services including:
FREE 1-2-1 Peer Group Surgeries.
Members support one another in their areas of expertise and introduce their services and solutions to one another in far more depth. The first surgery session, held by one member, resulted in him securing over £11,000 worth of business, in just one morning!
FREE Under the Microscope Workshops.
Members can bring their business issues to a team who really help them ‘shape-up’ their idea. One workshop resulted in a member developing a new business offering even bigger than their existing business. The group shaped the strategy, marketing, strap lines and the marketing literature.
FREE On-line Marketing Support.
Members can market what they do, their special offers and utilise the services of an on-line shop.
On-line and Off-line Business Referral Scheme.
This is like having a huge sales force working for you, that you don’t need to employ.

Prosper offers growing businesses an opportunity to spend time in quality environments, with other businesses, where they can develop relationships and business opportunities together.

Prosper founder member, Ralph Bettany of Ralph Bettany Associates, (an accountancy business based in Swansea) says, “Prosper Business Referral Networking is the future of business, in my opinion. I really appreciate doing business with people who buy into a win/win philosophy.”

Membership is an investment of £450.00 per year. Each networking group has only one category of business, so gone are the days in Prosper of walking into a room where there are three or four of any one trade all vying for the same business.

Prosper Business Referral Network
www.prosperuk.net
Membership is by invitation only.
Please telephone Cheryl Bass (pictured right) on 07974 762601



 

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